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Myself, and Moving On
Let’s talk about my love life, these days, shall we? My nails bite into his back, but he takes them, sharp as they are, and he is unbreakable. His skin in thick, the muscle underneath taut to the...
View ArticlePost Mortum Of My Relationships To This Date
So various things happened to me over the last month or two, which has strangled updates down to a trickle. In the first place work decided to be a pain in the butt and then laid me off. Then stuff...
View ArticleTopping From All Angles (And A Bit Of How I Dom)
Let’s talk about topping from the bottom. Recently I did tentative discussions about stuff with someone about kinky fun times- the usual things about what happens to whom, and how. and, over the course...
View ArticleFriday Femdom Fiction: You Can’t Get What You Want
Nature made her curvy and gave her the will to make men weak. In a kinder world, she would have been as yielding and plaint as the supple softness of her body. Instead, she’s learned that she loved the...
View ArticleReader Letter: Second Thoughts After Pushing A Limit
We have our second ever reader letter! SecondThoughts is brave enough to share their experience with exploring limits and what can go wrong. Hi Miss Pearl, First off, long time lurker, first time...
View ArticleWhy A Special Protocol To Approach Dominant Women Is A Dumb Idea
Brief break from emotional gut spilling and porn, for something that was sitting in drafts- a rant on why it’s a bad idea to try to develop a universal approach for doms. This one gets bandied about on...
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Review: Little Submissions Collected Short Stories Pt. 1
There are few writers more influential on my own femdom stories than Vague (Jerry Jones), of Little Submissions. Imaginative, violent and loving, he manages to capture both all the playfulness and the...
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BDSM Play Party Fun Times & Flogging Practice
Three dominant women on one bottom, flogging lessons, a really slutty outfit, public sex. How was your weekend? So, last weekend I went to one of Montreal’s classier dungeons for a BDSM play party-...
View ArticleMe and Poly (And Monogamy, and Sorta-Monogamy)
So, what am I, anyway? I am complicated when it comes to the subject of monogamy. Personally I don’t think I’m one of nature’s 100% monogamists, but I’m not fully cut out for full bore sharing. A...
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The Darker Side Of Caretaking
After a conversation with a friend about the challenges that we face in relationships, I’m going to talk about something I’m not good at. Which is to say, letting go with other people in a way that...
View ArticleThe Big Mistake Even Good Submissive Men Make When Looking For A Femdom
Male subs, stop asking for the relationship you don’t actually want with a dominant woman. This pertains to you, the guy who is thoughtfully and carefully filling out a profile to put his best foot...
View ArticleReader Letter: More From Crazy Jeremy!
The guy who sent random hatemail last time appears to have become a regular fan- this time with thinly veiled rape and death threats from the comfortable anonymity of the internet, apparently after...
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More Inbox Detrius And Spanking
It is a factor of the open and relatively accessibly nature of the internet that you will end up talking to people you never would have met outside the free flow of online communication. From feeling...
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e[lust] #53 -I’m in it!
We (and by we I mean me) decided to try the e[lust] thing everyone else is doing. It’s very interesting because it’s generally writing for women and by women- although just to warn long term readers,...
View ArticleRegular People Kinky Sex
It began with a light smack upside his head. Downton Abbey in the background. Rolling around, wrestling and kissing. Fucking him, on the couch, his arms thrown up over his head, pulled taut but the...
View Article2013 in Review
Wow, 2013! It’s been one year of serious and regular updating and I can say that it’s been a more than successful experiment: 40K visits, of which 28K of you were unique hits! When I started...
View ArticleWhat Is Dominance, Anyway?
So, I’ve talked before about the gap between expectations for dominants versus the reality of making this work for your personality. We have all done to death theorizing why femdoms appear to be in...
View ArticleHis Collar, My Needs
For Christmas, I got LadyCobra (a leather worker, among her many talents) to make up a play collar in a rich, dark chocolate brown to add the Wildcard’s Christmas basket. It’s a prototype, as she...
View ArticleFemdom Stories: Birthday Commission
Someone ordered their very own custom story for a birthday gift for a very lucky sub, and kindly gave me permission to re-post the contents here for everyone to enjoy. She got home with the rustle of...
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Other Places To Go Part IV
Happy 2014! With the year showing all sorts of promise, and various other projects on the go- here’s a trio of good links on other people’s blog posts that I thought was worth a gander. Kink Abuse...
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