Not So Good Sex
We have not so good, hurried sex on Sunday night and neither one of us comes, although I get close. He’s so pretty, but I think part of what went wrong is I think he just wanted to cuddle and my head’s...
View ArticleRetrospective 2018 On My Femdom Life
Let’s look at the metaphoric hiking blisters and holiday snaps from my sexual journey, shall we? This blog has seen me through four relationships, and a significant part of my adult life, almost a...
View ArticleFriday Femdom Fiction: Jerk Off Instructions
“Take off your clothes.” She spoke, abruptly, after breaking off the kissing. She could still feel the stoftness of his lips against hers, the right amount of wet, and the taste-that-was-not-a-taste...
View ArticleAnti-erotic Life Updates
Pleasant lashings of Vancouver rain beat down on the new city I call home, while I ineptly put together homemade pancakes (got the texture wrong because I eyeballed it and experimented with cake flour)...
View ArticleReader Letter: “Femdom Housewife?”
I recently got this rather sweet letter from a long term reader, so I’m glad to get a chance to answer for everyone. It’s a topic I’ve talked about before- the awkward relationship between gender roles...
View ArticleLife Updates Again
I am thinking about the particulars of self-care. Not fairy lights and lush bath bars, but the immense amount of effort it takes to keep one overly ambitious adult woman ambulatory. Since I started a...
View ArticleFriday Femdom Fiction: Toys For Good Boys
“It’s too hot to fuck.” She was clad only in panties, sprawled so they just touched, arm to arm and her ankle layered over his. In her perception is body was radiating heat, and she’d broken off their...
View ArticleFriday Femdom Fiction: Personal Sex Doll
A yup, sponsored story posts help pay for the cost of hosting. This time it’s SexDolls.com helping pay for all the porn you folks love and enjoy. “Don’t move except when I move you, don’t speak.” She...
View ArticleOn Missing Stairs, Zak Smith, Libertines, Pimps, BDSM and Roleplaying
Let’s talk about Zak Smith (aka Zak Sabbath, Zak S). No, not the being terrible person thing, lots of people know about that already. Rather, lets talk about a particularly noxious kind of person who...
View ArticleHow to Get a Woman to Dominate You: a Search Review.
I believe you can tell a lot about the quality of the information available to community by how searchable it is and right now that exact phrase “How to Get a Woman to Dominate You” turns up a disaster...
View ArticleNew Years Eve, A Sub & A (First) Kiss
Silver sits, stiffly, in a chair in a circle of the first comers to the party, and stands between the protection of a tall fan, and the edge of the television, his back to the wall. He is immersing...
View ArticleNew Year, New Me, New Rules
My break up is not something I will particularly touch on, other than to say we wanted different things, and I wish Brick the best in future. Me, I have been processing it as a series of feelings,...
View ArticleEating Ayn Rand
He is an eager puppy, and everything I do is wonderful. I am not particularly surprised; this has been the nature of my interaction with the opposite sex, at least since nerdy boys discovered nerdy...
View ArticleDon’t Date Your Therapist: A Response
Eris Martinet wrote a manifesto of sorts, and I have a disagreement. It’s here: Psycho-Sexual Domination and Its Healing Potential It’s one of the biggest ethical nonos for a professional mental...
View ArticleFemdom Movie Review: Dogs Don’t Wear Pants
TL;DR Verdict: Oneric *deeply* dark romantic comedy. Expect fucked up visuals and a view into kink as filthy. Protagonist is super unhealthy, but this is in the camp as “Secretary” more so than “The...
View ArticleValentine’s Roses From My Property
The rose stems bite into my palm as I hold and snap them off short enough to fit into the large water glass I have retrieved for that purpose. Silver fumbles with plastic packages of sausages, cheese,...
View ArticleSilver, Before I Kissed Him
Before the aesthetic of New Years Eve demanded a kiss, we had a first play date. My first time in your apartment, I have teased you with a simple key necklace through the morning and previous night. I...
View ArticleMy Property Fills and Sucks At My Command
He’s bent over the table, the largely featureless black dildo well engulfed into his mouth, base steadied with one hand while the other edges himself at my command. Around his waist, straps further...
View ArticleFemdom Book Review: At His Lady’s Command by Nicola Davidson
This is a cream puff. It’s a sugary, gooey confection you bite into and there is flakey bits all over your blouse and custard oozing out, but you aren’t sorry you did it. Our protagonists, Lady Portia...
View ArticleAfter Quarantine Plans (Femdom Comic)
Just a bit of cute femdom The border continues to separate Silver and I, so while we responsibly stay inside in our respective homes, I’ve been using the sketch book he got me for Valentine’s Day. The...
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