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Excuse Our Dust (From Seattle)
Oh whoopsies, broke a few things on the site there, didn’t I? Hopefully the new template tweaks are working nice and smooth in your browser. Feel free to leave a comment if they are not! Otherwise,...
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Je te rievens / I come back to you
Whoops, this sat in drafts as the remainder of August and the first half of September into real life obligations and migraines. Here’s the yearning horny, albeit a bit belated! My body wakes me up at...
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Justine Cross Domme Class Review
The class was the live version of “On Top: Exploring Your Dominant Persona”, taught by Justine Cross, variously touted as the most popular Dominatrix in LA, participant in extensive public outreach...
View ArticleFriday Femdom Fiction: Edging Experiments in the Bedroom Lab
“No Nut November is a good enough reason to test this, isn’t it?” Her phone was open to a page on Amazon, looking at the selection of lab coats available. They were more expensive, in her opinion,...
View ArticleFriday Femdom Fiction: A Domme’s Gratitude Journal
Gratitude is relevant to clinical psychology due to (a) strong explanatory power in understanding well-being, and (b) the potential of improving well-being through fostering gratitude with simple...
View ArticleWhat is even happening?
Although I have been doing better and writing more, my blog is currently dealing with ten year bloat/age issues that despite the standard permission changes, have borked many things on the back end so...
View ArticleA Little Bit of Good This Christmas
I am extremely happy to say the site, with the help of a technically skilled person, has been returned to functionality with a full, clean re-install. After 10 years, it was apparently full of ghosts...
View ArticleMy Sub In Rope and Dreams in Vancouver
It can’t be helped that in my site’s long period of malfunction, various writing got caught in the delay. This was started months earlier this year, but I suppose its better shared here than put into...
View ArticleFriday Femdom Fiction Pure Sadism
“I am going to hurt you, because your body in pain inspires me.” The cuffs were padded leather, rope run through the rings and around two pillars. The room was a long rectangular shape, where these...
View ArticleSophia James of “Dominant Female Submissive Male” Is A Fraud
As an advice book, this 2014 manual is not good. While there are many ways a book might be bad, this one is a special kind of harmful. That’s the sort of guide where some of the advice isn’t the worst,...
View ArticleFebruary 2022 Femdom Projects And Updates
Oh my goodness, we are already one month into 2022, and it feels like time has started to fly again. Happy Year of the Tiger to all people who celebrate this particular holiday- and to me, because I am...
View ArticleConfessions of a Sadistic Femdom
All my pain games with my partners, my denial, teasing and so forth are pursuing a very particular outcome. Because it turns me on and makes me feel deeply connected to my so called victim. It is not a...
View ArticleFemdom Life Updates- Caretaking, Free Book Promos, Seasonal Migraines
For the last few weeks I have been in the USA, taking care of Silver, who had ankle surgery to correct some issues from a broken ankle. He’s healed pretty fast, but it helped to have me around the...
View ArticleBig Resources Dump For the Dating Kinky Class I am Teaching Tonight
As is my habit, I disappeared into a pile of health issues, failing to update my Patreon or my blog. Vague shitposting occurred on twitter, as I shuttled through the multitude of appointments that go...
View ArticleWater, Hay Fever, Cum, Bodies and Breath Play
Allergies boil my head, but his body is an aesthetic dream. My twitter feed’s a minutiae of trying to clear my head of goo, unerotic except to that one person with a histamine fetish (I mean there must...
View ArticlePractical Rambling Life Updates Post Migraine
Oh dear. Lots of promises and then intermittent hiatuses. Bang out something- an article or some such, and then vanish again, after making hopeful plans for more. A therapist, a neurologist, an OT, a...
View ArticleThe Trauma Of Telling The Truth
As you know, health issues have been a core part of the sporadic hiatus, and emotional well being is part of them. It’s something I am a bit sad and sheepish about. In my happiest D/s relationship,...
View ArticleI Am an Expert In Being In Love
dominant sadomasochist. At this point it’s probably clear that the whole femdom thing is indelibly stamped into the core function of my sexuality, enough that I have been talking about it a LOT lately,...
View ArticleFriday Femdom Fiction His Sacrifice
No candles or altar, just the buff carpet under foot and the grey slab of the bed. That was soft, not the carved stone her imagination summoned, but there were strong straps to hold him fast, so that...
View ArticleFriday Femdom Fiction: Rubber Ducking
Water roared, white noise in a white bathtub, silver tap spouting full blast and warm. The fan, hidden somewhere in the ceiling, churned the air to knock down the steam, though the door was still flung...
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