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Femdom Review: Roar of Thunder
Roar of Thunder by Gia Dawn Roar of Thunder is what I’d describe as a Switch Romance- a story where both characters are competing to dominate the other. From my personal perspective I like a little...
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Finding Miss Pearl
Hey there! With an active presence all around the web, I thought I’d do a post about other places you can find me: As well as this blog, I’m pretty active on twitter as @omisspearl. Lots of daily life...
View ArticlePlay Party Hijinks
“Take off your clothes.” He was talking innocently to a couple when I interrupted. We’d taken enough time to get into the groove of the party and I had decided it was time to play. His collar was...
View ArticleFemdom Spanking Practice
Wildcard and I have a more or less weekly thing, Punish Tuesdays, set up to make sure we have some sort of anchor for our dynamic. Last Tuesday was spanking practice, a well needed session for me as...
View Article30 Day of Kink: BDSM Fantasy VS Real Life
30 Days of Kink Continues, as the blogging exercise draws to a close! These aren’t questions that I think that deserve their own blog post, but as this exercise is almost done I thought I’d wrap them...
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On Femdom In Popular Culture
I guess one of the hardest parts of conventional heterosexual femdom is how damn disempowering it feels. Maybe some women get joy out of it in the porn and movie version, but in my perception, it takes...
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Fanmail & Celebrity
Gosh, being a teeny celebrity is nice! Recently a person who has read The Pet Gentleman sent me a nice thank you with an extra special treat. There’s them enjoying a wonderful Canadian vacation with...
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Answering: “Am I A Femdom?”
One of the hardest things about being a dominant woman is still got to be that initial hurdle when you have to reach that question in the first place “Am I a femdom?“ The usual answer is “only if you...
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The Pet Gentleman 2: Cover & Title
Just got back from a relaxing Alaskan cruise and into Montreal’s sticky summer weather. While I was gone Yumine delivered and provided four sketch ideas for book 2 of Catamite (AKA “The Pet...
View ArticleReal Life Again & Emotional Health
As mentioned, I’ve just come back from an Alaskan cruise, a family thing that was well appreciated but kept me away all last week. Despite the ability to create your own event (LGBT, friends of Bill...
View Article30 Days of Kink: The Penultimate Post
30 Days of Kink (in this case several days crammed into a post ‘cuz this isn’t tumblr) is drawing to a close. The last challenge is to pick your own topic, but this time they asked another question...
View ArticleFemdom Problems: Being a Dominatrix VS Getting What You Want
I browse reddit when I’m bored, and this comment thread came up on /r/relationships from a user (reluctantmistress) with a pretty classic problem that happens more often than I’d like in femdom: the...
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#Service4Pearl: In Which I Post An Ad For A Service Sub
So I’ve decided to explore service as a kink. Specifically, I’ve been thinking about a fussy kind of valet/maid scenario, more Downton Abbey than anything more explicitly fetish. Wildcard is not a...
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#Service4Pearl: Worst Response To Ad So Far
The inbox responses came in at a steady trickle, and alongside a few awesome guys, a few fine but not a good match guys, there’s always a few that just make you shake your head. I don’t need to tell...
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Understanding A Cruel Lady – Cover Preview and Launch Day
Guess what’s coming! The art is in, and it’s as lovely as I expected. Now all that’s left before launch of book 2 in The Pet Gentleman series is final edits and cover text layout. For those of you who...
View ArticleFirst Orgasm
Let me tell you about coming for the first time. Not for the first, first way back when I was twelve and my sexuality meant breaking the law, sneaking online BDSM comics I wasn’t allowed to have, and...
View Article#Service4Pearl: Candidates And Tea Interviews
Outside of a few “oh dear god!” offers, and a few people who were on slightly the wrong page (looking for naked service more so than obedient service) but were not bad for wanting something different,...
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Interviewed by Dr. Sue Storm – #FemdomPodcast
So right now my social media is beeping every half hour with promotional tweets about an awesome interview I did with Dr. Sue Storm, femdom, blogger and podcaster extraordinaire.She a very visible...
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#FemdomLife Update: My Friend Got Married, Male Burlesque, Attack of the Vanilla
Updates are more than a little slow lately, blame a friend getting married, a massive head cold and then a family visit. I will share that we had the most gorgeous male burlesque dancer at the...
View ArticleA Little Bit of Simple, Easy Femdom Sex
Our houseguest, my brother, was away for a date hangout netflix and chill, I had some time to spend with Wildcard without fear of noise or naughty revelations. It’s not to say we aren’t aware that we...
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